Step Parent Adoption

When the court is making a decision about the adoption of a child, the guiding principle is that the adoption must be in the child’s best interests both in childhood and in later life, above any other alternative for the child’s care. Other legal alternatives include care or parenting orders, which give parental responsibility for all or aspects of the child’s care without the need for an adoption.

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Who does the Act apply to?

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The Act generally relates to the adoption of a child who is present in NSW at the time the adoption application is filed.

The step-parent or relative(s) making the application must live in, or be permanent residents of NSW.

There are some circumstances where the Court may make an exception. It is recommended you talk to one of our experts regarding any exceptions.

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Who can be adopted?

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A child can be adopted if they are:

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• less than 18 years old on the date the adoption application is made

• 18 years or older on the date the adoption application is made and are

  cared for, or were cared for as their child before turning 18, by the step-

  parent(s) or relative(s) making the application

• a child under the parental responsibility of the Minister administering

  the Children and Young Persons (Care and Protection) Act 1998

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Who can Apply for a Step Parent adoption?​​​

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The Court must not make an adoption order in favour of a Step Parent unless:​​​

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• the child is at least five years old

• they have lived with the child and the child’s birth or adoptive parent for a continuous period of at least two years immediately before the adoption application being made (this is not required if the child to be adopted is aged over 18)

• consent has been given for the adoption by the appropriate persons, this may include the non-custodial parent, the child or any person who has parental responsibility for the child

• the Court is satisfied that the adoption is clearly preferable in the best interests of the child over any other action that could be taken by law.

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How to prepare an adoption application

If you are considering adopting a relative child or step-child, you can lodge an adoption application directly with the NSW Supreme Court. It is commonly understood that you MUST use a lawyer for this process but this is not correct and our guide can help you submit the relevant documents yourself.

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Remember - NOT ALL LAWYERS ARE EXPERTS IN ALL FIELDS. We have seen on numerous occasions where a lawyer has tried to help a friend or relative and it can be an expensive mistake. ENSURE they have the experience and in depth knowledge of the adoption process. Our panel of experts are here to help and may just save you time and money.

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Our amazing guide to representing yourself and preparing all of the relevant information has been designed by qualified adoption experts to ensure you have all of the tools necessary to represent yourself and potentially save thousands of dollars.

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Do you need a court report?

If the child you wish to adopt is under the age of 18 years, you are required to provide a written report to the Court concerning the proposed adoption. The report must be prepared by a ‘Contracted Adoption Assessor’, also known as an "Independent Assessor'.  Click here for one to contact you. Additional travel costs may also be charged by the Contracted Adoption Assessor if they have to travel a long distance to undertake the work which is why we endeavour to connect you with a local one..

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Who needs to give consent for a child’s adoption?

When you make an adoption application, the Act says you must have consent from parents and anyone with parental responsibility for the child. However exceptions to this can be made when:

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• the Court waives this requirement

• in a joint application, if the person whose consent is required is the proposed adoptive parent

• the child, who is 12 or more years of age with sufficient maturity and understanding, gives sole consent to his or her adoption

• the child is 18 or more years of age

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Children 12 or more years of age must consent to their adoption. An exception for children aged 12 or more years but less than 18 years of age can be made, if it is established that they do not have the cognitive capacity, maturity or sufficient understanding to give an informed consent. Or if the child is not in a physical or mental condition to properly consider consent.

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Witnessing consent to adopt a child

An independent person must witness the consent to adopt a child. Only certain people, including an independent lawyer or registered adoption counsellor, can witness consent documents.  Click here for one to contact you. No fees are payable to a person for witnessing a consent to adoption.

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The consent documents, which are available in our guide are only valid when they are signed in front of an independent witness and when all other pre-requisites outlined in the Act and Regulations have been met.

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Mandatory Written Information

A person or child consenting to a child’s adoption must be provided with the Mandatory Written Information prior to giving their consent. A copy of this is available in our guide.​

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Registered counselling

Adoption is a legal process where the legal rights and responsibilities for a child are transferred from the child’s parent(s) to the adoptive parent(s). Because of this, the Regulations say that a person or child consenting to an adoption must have registered counselling. The purpose of the registered counselling is to ensure that the person consenting understands the legal and emotional effects of adoption on parents and children.

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A person can give consent 72 hours after receiving registered counselling, but not more than 30 days after. If the parent giving consent is the birth mother of a newborn baby they must also wait until 5 days after the babies birth to receive registered counselling.

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Additional travel costs may also be charged by the registered counsellor if they have to travel a long distance to undertake the work.

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Adoption of a child of Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander descent

When thinking about adoption for children of Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander descent, connections to family, community and country need to be considered as a priority.

Because of this, the Act requires that the person giving consent to the adoption of an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander child receives adoption counselling that considers Aboriginal and Torres Straight Islander customs and culture, and being cared for in accordance with that culture.

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If the person giving consent refuses such counselling, The Department for Communities and Justice (DCJ) who were formerly known as the Family and Childrens service (FACS) must provide them with written information on Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander customs and culture regarding adoption issues. They must sign an acknowledgment that they have read and understood the information.

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Responsibilities of DCJ in intrafamily adoption

The Department for Communities and Justice (DCJ) say that If a child is 12 or more years of age, and is giving sole consent to their own adoption, FACS must give at least 14 days notice of the adoption application to the parent(s) or person(s) whose consent would otherwise be needed. In some situations, the Court can dispense with the giving of notice.

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You will need to provide DCJ Adoption Services with the name and contact details of the parent(s) to be informed. The request form for DCJ to give notice is available in our guide.

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